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a short one before i start rushing on my closing. finally the almost 2 weeks of upgrading have...

Mon, 08 Apr 2013 05:21:00 -0400

a short one before i start rushing on my closing.

finally the almost 2 weeks of upgrading have ended. no more waking up early in the morning BUT equals to squeezy trains and no free yummy ba chor mee for breakfast :(

St george’s house was in a big mess after renovation. my big man can really tidy the house and do housework! so his ah yi was like ” Lihui ah, dont worry next time if u cant do housework, cus erjie can do a very good job, cleaning and tidying the whole house!”

another week to go before we leave for our 6D5N Hongkong/Macau trip again. but this time round, my future in-laws are travelling with us!! not very excited thou prob we just went there 2 years back, will treat it as a pre-wedding honeymoon for us. :D

some updates on my wedding:
Venue: Holiday Day Inn Atrium
Date: 21st July 2013 (Sunday)
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Venue, Date & - Checked & Settled.
Brothers & Sisters - Checked & Settled.
Pre-Wedding Album - Checked & Delivered.
Wedding Videographer - Confirmed.
Wedding Photographer - Confirmed.
Make up Artist for Bride - Confirmed.
Food Tasting Menu - Confirmed.
Wedding Favours - Pending confirmation from hotel.
Wedding theme - Yet to decide LOL.
Wedding Ring - Checked & Settled.
Wedding Band - Checked & Settled.
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Gatecrash - TBC
Bridesmaid Dress - Confirmed & Pending Delivery.
Bridesmaid Gift - Pending Sample.
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GUestbook - TBC (Change of plan)
Invitation cards - Pending Printing
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Honeymoon venue: Thailand - Phuket / BKK
Flights : Confirmed.
Hotel in Phuket : Confirmed.
Hotel in BKK : Confirmed.
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many people asked why we decided to go thailand for honeymoon when my desired honeymoon destination is maldives/mauritius. hahaha. bascially, we have far over spend on our wedding photoshoot, and our flat are going to be delivered like real SOON! yes, i can finally see my unit up! hahaha. shld be working on the last storey / the roof top now. other blks have already started painting. interior works have already started while building! hopefully able to get our keys by 2nd quar next yr! lol. ya, so we decided to shift a part of our budget for honeymoon to our future nest. but, after booking everything, i dont think this thailand trip (sounds budget) seems budget lo. erjie thinks that the amount we gona spend is much more worth it! marriage is not all about me, so i think i shld put myself in erjie’s shoes too :)

got to start on my actual day timeline & distributing the responsibilities after my hongkong trip. the draft have already been more or less done :D

Countdown: 3mths13days O.O

MARCH!?!?!

Sun, 03 Mar 2013 23:07:45 -0500

We are already stepping into the 1st quar of year 2013!!!!

my new year is all about gambling. however, i didnt touch mahjong at all. surprise not? hahaha. as usual, the hse visiting over at my side and erjie side. reunion lunch at my place, mum and dad join me and erjie’s family for reunion dinner at ban heng! lol. this year abit special, cus erjie’s parents & ahyis (the usual sunday gang) came over to my side to bai nian as well as to gamble with my ahyi’s. LOLOL. & the following week, my family went over erjie’s place to gamble.

already sent out my informal invitation to my side of friends, & im really glad to receive their responses and blessing. time to really get things more organised thou most of them are already in place. hahaha. no more excuses of “after new year den settle” mindset anymore!!

4months17days—

2013.

Wed, 23 Jan 2013 20:11:06 -0500

first post this year, 2013.

we are stepping into the last 6mths countdown to my big day!

preparation wise, so far so good. and im finally meeting my jiemei gang on the 30th this month to discuss further on my big day! each and every important role to play on this very day. cant wait to tekan the brothers! hahahahah!

will be reviewing my photoshoot layout this friday, as well as to get back ALL the soft copies! afterwhich, we can move on to our childhood/picture montage. this album better turn out good cus i guess we spend quite a bomb on it!

GDL stuff are 7788 listed out. shld be getting them after cny. ( Let us enjoy our last yr of inputs before we start our outputs next year LOL). in-laws-to-be have already gotten my SDJ few weeks back and im really every single pcs of it! haaha. i even ask erjie’s parents if i could wear them this coming cny anot. lol. all 4pcs were chosen by myself, erjie, his parents and 2 of his relatives. lol. we bought our wedding band there. design wise is simple cus its a everyday thing. anyway, complicated or bling bling stuff is nv my thing.

got to start reviewing my guest list prob next month, the list should be more or less 80% confirmed. pls dont give me last min hipcups hor. bo pi bo pi. and i haven even started on my guest book!

& the best part is WE HAVEN EVEN TOUCH ANYTHING ON OUR HONEYMOON YET! alamak! too many places i wish to go, but we are filtering our options off due to money issues. decided to reserve a portion of our flat which will be delivered very soon too. not forgetting our Plan B.aby :D

till then.

super family love! i guess table for 6 dinner is becoming our weekly dinner routine. everyone make...

Fri, 28 Dec 2012 00:53:37 -0500

super family love!

i guess table for 6 dinner is becoming our weekly dinner routine. everyone make it a must to reach home by 7pm for our dine out dinner. the 3 couples - erjie’s parents, erjie&i, XT&bf. LOL!

headed for scissor rice and impromptu movie date at city square. wanted to go newton for stingray but erjie say long time nv watch movie. so we jio them to watch the jackie chan movie together. the young couple already book tickets for tml with their friends so the steady 4 of us went ahead.

after dinner, still need to kill some time as we only manage to get tickets for 930pm. went metro and started shopping for bedsheets. b’s dad urging us to get our wedding bedsheets since we cant use the one b’s mum bought. :) kinda feel bad. ntl, i really appreciate everything.

6 of us sharing one swensens giant earthq. family anot? LOL! and we clear it in 8mins la. damn funny. so b and i together with his parents 4 of us went for our movie while the young couple make their way home themsleves.

reach home close to midnight. need to clear the store with erjie’s mum cus we are changing the whole aircon system. only managed to hit the sack at 2am O.O

2nd appointment for layouts before cny in jan! cant wait cant wait. we were left with 3xx pictures to choose for our layout! HOW TO CHOOSE! so bobian we top up for more. so looking forward :D

dec2012

Tue, 04 Dec 2012 01:16:30 -0500

December!

Finally done with our PS last week. caught some of the pics and they are really not bad one lo. or izit pics taken by pro cam all nice one? hahah. otw back studio for our studio shoots, our photographer really warn u.

really special thanks to my mua and esp photographer and making us smile so naturally & of cus we cant wait to select our pictures next 2 weeks! lol.

secretly took pics of our suit and gown, and everyone commented that the pics doesnt look like me lo :(

& of cus, thank htb for everything. from getting those little props, my heels (esp), balloons, going back and forth from wdl to st george’s. you might be the serious MAN infront of everyone, the da nan ren. but deep in my heart i know how childish u are HAHAHAHAHAH! how sweet u can be LOLOL. working so hard now for our better life. planning our future carefully, the kids, the house and even my job.

pics up soon! :D

7moremths+

PS postpone cus of erjie’s injury. luckily we manage to get another slot, everything have been...

Wed, 26 Sep 2012 02:18:42 -0400

PS postpone cus of erjie’s injury. luckily we manage to get another slot,

everything have been nicely planned. waiting for our big day as well as our love nest! :D

wont be dropping by this space as often.

no words to describe.

Tue, 28 Aug 2012 02:05:42 -0400

busy aug!

finally project 1 completed! wouldnt credit myself 100% for that, cus i guess without J’s help, i confirm chop chop cannot finish it one lo. & b’s mummy say SO CUTE LEHHHH! lol. placing them on top of our bedframe together with b’s will u marry me board. lol.

now i cant wait for my PS! less than 2 months.

HEHEHEHEEHE <3

” will you marry me ??? “

Wed, 08 Aug 2012 03:23:58 -0400

” will you marry me ??? “

so much for July12 start of a new month = reports, closing etc. BPCC champanionship ystd, sad to say...

Wed, 01 Aug 2012 03:58:23 -0400

so much for July12

start of a new month = reports, closing etc.

BPCC champanionship ystd, sad to say minyi lost by 1pts!!!!!! they OTed and gave Home u a good fight. baby played well ystd, and the minyi gf team was like, “LIHUI WHAT U GAVE ERJIE YSTD NIGHT HUH!!!” LOL! we cheered, shouted, screamed thru the 3rd and 4th + 5th quarter. erjie say thou almost like 60% of the crowd (cus their girl’s team, U18 etc all came down) support home u, but the minyi gf team’s cheering is even louder than their la. haha.

finally BPCC cup ended, and this weekend is gona be the yearly Div1 games! hohoho ~

bought erjie a TH watch that cost me a bomb last week :( jitao happyboy85 la. its acutally our PWG but since he quite like the watch cus i choose the design LOL so i decided to give him a advance one. lol. first 4digit gift for my man sia. nv bought something so exp for someone ever. lol.

its always him waking up earlier than me. rush to work, rush to training, reach home he KOed and the cycle continues. :( every morning we nv fail to complain tired. lol. duno why for me, but for him i understand. reaching home at almost 12am, waking up at 5plus. asked him if he’s tired and his reply was:

B: OF CUS TIRED LAAA!
me: :(
B: every month looking forward to the extra income den not tired liao, every morning need to struggle to wake up, but i tell myself, i have to cus i wan to give my bb and my kids a better life in the future.
me: LOVE YOU BAOBEI! ^^
B: ya, and u better be. i rather i am the one xing ku abit than see u xin ku.
me: yayaya, work jiu work, dont forget to propose hor!?!?!?!?! LOL!
B: this one even more stress than work ahh zzzz
me: -_______-“”“

tell me, how to not xin fu??? :x

2 more months to OCtober, till then :D

27TH

Wed, 18 Jul 2012 22:26:50 -0400

19th of the mth! not celebrating since b’s having training later on. & im hitting the gym as well.

so proud of minyi when they won the champion team on monday! they had a good fight thru out the 4 quar. it will be good if the minyi’s gf team is there. hahahah! but sad to say, only left me and yl. yl wasnt there on that day due to work. the rest of the couple are no longer together. :( hope they will do the same during their div 1. poor baby fell and got 2 ba kwa, one on his feet, & the other one on his arms.

meet yw during lunch. been super long since i last met her la! this bitch. we nv fail to bitch and gossip around when the guys are having their games. hahah. of cus at the same time cheer for them la. lol! left office at 1230 and only left the coffee shop at 230. lol. almost 2 hours at the coffee shop catching up! hahha.

meet dahui & suan ystd for dinner at ramen champion. soild hours of catching up as well! glad that our friendship is still there thou i didnt manage to grad together with them. and finally this dahui “xiang tong liao” hahahha! but still, friendship forever girls! :)

july.12

Tue, 03 Jul 2012 04:58:27 -0400

Project 1 - No progress! need to on leave to complete this. i cant let this hang there lo. zzz. lazy me.

Project 2 - one colour down. 2 more to go! baby cut his fingers during work.

Project 3 - on hold, pending PS soft copies. (might be calling this off)

Project 4 - Pending AD.

Project 5 & 6 - drafts up. need to get more materials :)

Finally, all 3 majors settled. VG, PS, and AD.

so far so good. been kinda slacking with.. 3 more months! need to buck up abit this month cus b’s div 1, intercon national rounds , friendlys + the bt panjang duno what cup coming up. sure tight schedule.

b’s training very hard, at the same time very lazy also. LOL! thou this might not be his climax anymore, but still, he’s trying to build up his stamina, and also looking good during our ps! hahah. target to get into the chu xuan again! thou we jolly well know that he have no time to commit. hahaha. ntl, im still very proud of my dear boy, being a national team player for 2/3 years? representing Singapore. at least we could share with our kids that daddy is once a national player okay. dont play play. ahaha.

gym sessions have been really productive! & im loving them!

extra moolahs for us/house/kids from this month onwards in exchange for erjie’s effort/hardwork. thanks dearest for everything. :)

dinner with b’s fam/relatives ystd. & they came over my our place and saw the sunflower painting in the kitchen. hehehehe! everyone praise that my sunflowers were really beautiful :DD happygirl89

gt to rush with my closing now!

appraisal

Thu, 14 Jun 2012 22:39:37 -0400

wahahahahhah! finally the long wait appraisal doneeeeeee! im the last one in my dept to be called in. so freaking excited. hahah.

cant wait for July!

super blessed to have such nice in-laws-to-be, seriously.

every night i reach home (if im earlier, like 9plus, erjie’s parents will be in the living room watching tv) they nv fail to ask me if i got eat dinner anot! His dad even emphasis that I MUST MUST MUST have my meals daily, most imptly is a healthy body! and one fine night when i reach home with erjie,

(in chi)
mother: come back already huh.
me: ya. so tired.
mother: ya lo. work liao go exercise until so late sure tired one. got eat dinner anot. must eat hor. cannot skip. at least eat abit.
me: ya have. ahah.
mother: i buy HL milk for u, strawberry one. if at night come home hungry must drink ok. cannot empty stomach go slp. later gastric alot of problem. -pour one cup for me while im unpacking my stuff-
me: orh, xiexie!!
mother: ok la. finish drinking liao go slp early. tml still got work.
me: okay! u go sleep first, i pack my things liao i go sleep.
mother: dont need to wash la. tml i wash for you. very late go slp!!!

<3<3<3<3<3

& of cus ; on monday! my cute mummy!

(in chi) - at 6.30pm when im on the way back.
me: mi ah! got cook?
mother: have. u coming back?
me: yes! what u cook?
mother: u come back i steam fish cook vege for u la.
me: mafan ma?
mother: of cus no la! u wan everyday also can. but u everyday must come back! hahah.
me: HAHAH! okay.
mother: where u already? so i can prepare the fish.
me: on the way liao leh. 20 more min.
mother: okok. i go prepare now. so when u reach home can eat already.
me: THANKS MUMMY!
mother: ur laogong eating?

LOLOLOLOLOL!

Project A to a halt. cos i cant figure out the next step to do. sad max. gona back for some guidance. :(

gowns. 4/13

Wed, 06 Jun 2012 23:55:40 -0400

2 gowns selected! abit pissed off when b’s phone keep ringing cus of his work stuff. major problem when he’s not around. a b c d calling him asking him how to solve the problem. zzzzz. my pissed off + tiredness = mood swing. lol. but erjie always have a thing to curb my mood swing. lol. cab back, discuss abit about outdoor shoot and we KO. was complaining to erjie’s mum and told her about our selections. and one thing is i need to find a 5inch tall high heels zzzz. cus the boyf too tall and even with a 3inch heels i still seem to look so much shorter. lol. so erjie’s mum was defending me by telling erjie its not bcus im short! its bcus he is too tall!!!! LOL!

dinner together with ahyi they all. expected, discussing about wedding budget and stuff. saw erjie’s dad and his workers and erjie dad quickly intro, “this is my daughter in law!!! next year getting married already!” lol.

B’s yima hse sit sit before we go home.

my wonderful well spent weekends consists of gyming, cycling, swimming, gyming again and bballing. lol. guess our piority now is just working out. #healthylifestyle

last wed, had an offically dinner with both our parents. and erjie’s parents came over my hse sit sit. glad that our parents can click so well. the dads have their soccer, car talk. while the mums have theirs. and together we were all talking about our future flat in yishun as well as furniture, decos etc, and the most paiseh thing, their grandchild. LOL! whatever it is, am really glad that both our families can really click well. its like a happy family x2! <3

4th more months to go! guess oct is gona be a busy month starting with our PS, my last single lady bday in the mids, followed by XT’s 21st, B’s bud bday chalet and ending with our taiwan holiday!! yipeeeee!

Project 1 - shld be able to complete in before aug? -crossed figures-

Project 2 - no progress! materials bought but no time to do! lol.

Project 3 - on hold, pending PS soft copies.

&&&&&&&&

we added another idea for our PS! ehehehe!

htb really started planning their gatecrash attire & stuff (seems like the guys are very excited as well) but i’ve yet to plan anything with my girls! :(

est. 4 more months to Photoshoot.
est. 13 more months to AD!
AHHHHHHHH!

MANGO.

Tue, 15 May 2012 05:04:00 -0400

thanks uncle, auntie. always giving me face and rushing out to the kitchen just to eat the mango i bought back even thou all of us are on the verge of falling sick. hahaha.

dinner with his family first, all the ho liao. crab, prawn fish etc. our treat again! lol. & just for a top, baby drove me to novena, and down to queensway to look for it and bought it for me. <3

cant wait for mother’s day & father’s day with my family & my-in-laws-to-be at sentosa! :)

original or photocopied planning?? u decide.

Sun, 06 May 2012 23:17:00 -0400

THANKS BABY FOR THE WONDERFUL 2 FULL WEEKENDS! my best motivator in the gym. encouraging me, keep me gg in my life. <3

bcus of his 5.5 working days, i seldom get to see him for 2 full weekends other than our overseas holiday. hahaha.

Project 1 going on well. figures coming out and im so excited to complete this project, :D im suppose to hold on to this till my PS, and my big day but im afraid i couldnt control myself (if it turns out not bad laaaaa)

people need to be proud of him/her sometime u seee. hahaha. somemore, i hope that this is our idea and i dun wish to see OUR idea becoming to OTHERS cus we have already seen a few real life examples regarding our planning being used by OTHERS as their planning as well. erjie is pretty particular about this. yeah, i learnt from this lesson and i swear im not sharing anymore details anymore. selfish or what, i bother :p

Project 2 with erjie is another thumbs up from b’s relatives feedback! hehehe. bought more materials and we are thinking to enlarge it. probably it would look better. :D

Project 3 (DIY montage) still pending. cus we require our soft copy of wedding pictures which have yet to be taken. songs wise all selected! am glad that i finally found this superb app that is super user friendly! hahaha.

was browning thru those hairstyles and gowns with b’s ahyi. lol. they giving me all those tips to make me look slimmer. LOLOLOL. went back on my daily slimming tea which i tried a few years back. kinda useful for me, but im always lack of self discipline laaaaaa. arghhh. need to get them back! cant wait to try out all those gowns :DDD 3 more weeks! initially was still afraid that i might end up heading over the bridal shop with erjie only, still asked tor to acc me just in case. but now, i have ex colleagues, sis, friends volunteering to acc me there, i felt so much more relieved. hahahaha. :D

Just a thought....

Thu, 26 Apr 2012 22:06:07 -0400

FINALLY ITS FRIDAYYYYYYY!

have been waiting for this day for the longest. past few days was madness. news of my department head retiring have spreading out. & i guess more and less confirmed. just a matter of time thou. and stupid niao company doesnt want to recruit one more head count. almost flare up when most of the files in the room shift over to my little corner here. zzz.

thanks baby for the encouragement. doing silly stuff in exchange for my smiles while driving me back but end up i gave him tears. hahahaha! told B’s mum what happen and guess she gave me the best comfort and i went to the toliet and tears roll again. hahah. was WAping with lessy tortoise and thanks for the encouragement too. all these add up gan dong de de yan lei. hahah. sorry, i am not a career woman and never had i wanted to become one. (okay, maybe during my schooling days yes la. but after stepping out in the society, it turned out otherwise. & i wonder why) but for now, all i can do is to endure, accept, and keep going for at least a year or two. because i know i need a job & good money coming in other than any other things else. ( not comparing with humans of cus) so, pls bo pi. dont give me a disappointment in July. lol! & no matter what, im giving myself a good rest in July at least 2-3 days MC LOL! ;p

Project A sucessful! now focusing on Project B. hope to deliver something before Aug. HAHAHAH!

Apr is coming to an end. one quar of year 2012 just passed like this. yet to accomplish anything yet. on the other hand, my output have been so much higher than my input for Apr. with all the up-going activities, celebrations, plans, draining my $$$$$$ but i know it will all be recovered back with good memories and make it worth while. :)

went for knitting and KB said i look better with some fats on my face. LOL! been 3 years since i...

Mon, 23 Apr 2012 00:17:14 -0400

went for knitting and KB said i look better with some fats on my face. LOL! been 3 years since i last meet her. the whole lesson we were chatting about setting up family and hse designing. something she said is so true - ideal VS realistic, is u know what we are talking about. haha. and i told erjie abit it. finally he gave in and say he will consider!! MUAHAHAHAHAHAH! he bought my fav banmee but forgotten that i went for lessons. :( he pick me up after my lesson and we head over MS and suntec for some wedding show which is totally waste of time. cus all the vendors are all those that we have already have or signed up and paid deposit for. dinner with erjie’s dad. went to one of his fren’s YTF stall and he intro me to them as his daughter in law liao la. so paiseh la. LOL! home for our DIY stuff which erjie’s mum say its nice also! so happy! love doing DIY stuff & im so glad that my da nan ren actually do it together with me! heheheh! <3 <3 <3

erjie gang up with his mum and gave me a scare on sunday morning and both of them laugh out loud while i still blur blur duno whats gg on. lol. chatted with his mum while waiting for his dad to reach home before we join them for their weekly brunch with ahyi,s they all.

went over nex to walk walk and ahyi so random. went into G2000 and saw a few cardigans and she say this is so LIHUI’s STYLE! lol! ahyi saw a pic of wedding ring the other day at home and she become excited and say ZAI NA LI ZAI NA LI WO YAO KAN! LOL! tea break with them before we rush over indoor stadium for slingers game. and meet b’s boss for dinner and went over his place slack. total shiokness la. the air con, the sofa, the tv make me wana fall aslp liao. lol.

apr’s coming to an end very soon. finally our very belated anniversary celebration coming Sunday. excited much. <3

family#3

Sun, 22 Apr 2012 23:58:39 -0400

boyf went off for training while i stay at home and jayden and kayleen came up! BABIESSSSSSS <3 jayden was down with fever, was so afraid that he kena the HMFD. keep spam him with water. and kayleen was super cute! as well as erjie’s dad. was in the room packing my stuff and he shouted ” LIHUI AH! LAI LAI LAI! QU LAI LIAN XI (practise)!” ask me come practise take care of baby. hahaha. so i carried kayleen and brought her to the room. and jayden was like ” bu ke yi bao meimei ( cannot carry meimei)” LOL! i put kayleen on our bed and slp on our pillow, jayden followed! slpt beside kayleen. was so afraid that he might step on her la. lol. so erjie’s dad wanted to bring jayden out to the living room but he dont wan! want to stick with me. lol.

erjie’s dad wanted to pass me money. ask erjie bring me go choose my SDJ myself. but how to take the money! -___-” i say nvm la! no need! erjie’s mum say find one day we go out together with ahyi to choose my SDJ. scare later they buy something i dont like de. :x jayden fall aslp on my lap while chatting. lol.

seriously, must thanks erjie parents for being so nice so nice so nice to me. too nice until i will paiseh la. those drama always show inlaws are difficult to get along esp when you are staying under one roof. but after 2 years of staying together, nv had we have any arguement. in fact, my relationship with them have become closer. and in RL, nornmally, only people with like complicated family background stays with their mate but for us, i have a happy family myself. dad and mum is as loving as ever. erjie’s parents also. and now, we are starting a family ourselves!

random.

Fri, 20 Apr 2012 05:28:19 -0400

feeling sicky. :(

wanted to MC but still drag myself to work. i want to keep a clear record all the way till july! for both my annual increment and promoted increment. cant wait cant wait. appraisal to be done after auditor’s report! and the best part is they are going to back pay till march for my increment!!!!! hehehhe! sense that im super close to my 3xxx! :D

guess this is the longest gap ever my mc record holds. used to MC on a monthly basis but now, my last MC was in JAN12 LOL! and i only took 1 AL this yr in Mar12. cheeers to myself! hahaha.

additional 3days AL for being promoted in Mar12. coming +1 OIL for being a Public holiday on a sat! muahaha! happy max!

work aside cus TGIF!

belated anniversary will be next week.

upcoming may with chalets, mother’s day celebration + ashton’s bday! busy busy.
appointments + knitting lesson = major headache. busy busy.
erjie’s intercon games starting in may also! busy busy.
&
most imptly how can i forget about our first appointmenttttttttttttt in early June?

shag balls.

<3 my big and small baby.

Tue, 17 Apr 2012 22:27:34 -0400

<3 my big and small baby.